Who are we talking about now? It is about a leader, about a self-sufficient, harsh, successful man, who is almost ideal. People call them "alpha males," emphasizing their sexual success. Can such a person be a standard? It’s up to you to consider. If you are striving to become an ideal, then there is something worth taking note of and read more
Be honest with yourself.
An alpha male is a person who does not pretend and does not show a false face. This so-called "title" can be only achieved by remaining oneself. If you look at the biographies of truly great people, one fact will immediately catch your eye, they do not need a crowd to understand their success. Such a man knows his weaknesses and strengths, he realizes who he is in life. To find out that, you need to stop lying to yourself. When you lie, you try to develop those talents that you have never had. What do you get from multiplication by zero? So, first, admit your shortcomings to yourself and accept them, this is the first step towards purification.
Be on your own.
A real successful leader should not rely on others to succeed in life. He does not seek support from others to pay the bills or cook a dinner. This is not selfishness or independence, but an elementary understanding of the sad fact that nobody owes you anything. Therefore, they do not rely on others because they know that most often, they will either get problems, or they'll have to redo everything themselves. So, all this is not for fame but because of the understanding that you may not get a second chance. Therefore, you should constantly be on guard and stand ready. As Rocky Balboa said, "The world isn’t all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place... You, me, or nobody is going to hit as hard as life.”
Get out of your comfort zone.
Talking about true leaders, it is necessary to understand that only a person who’s got out of the comfort zone and got complete independence can be called a leader. It is the comfort zone that does not allow you to move on. What for? All, in fact, the presence of the rear makes you feel confident. However, at the same time, you are not 100% focused and do not feel the real price of your failure. Sometimes, you need to consciously get out of this zone to achieve any sort of success. Nobody says to leave the house and go wandering, just deliberately wall off a comfortable sofa, the Internet, and other temptations.
Become a big hit with the ladies.
It is the very point that you have been looking forward to seeing since you saw the word "Alpha" in the text for the first time. Yes, talking about such people, it will not do without the ability to communicate with women. Testosterone charm should be demonstrated all the time, hiding other shortcomings. There must be some kind of a magnet when you don’t surely know how it works, but it attracts the looks and bodies. That's why you need intelligence and strength, they are the best aphrodisiacs. Everything else is a nice addition. Remember that you should know not only how to kiss a woman but also how to communicate with her. The recipe is quite simple, you should take one part of chivalry, one part of the emotional and spiritual support, one part of intelligence, sense humor to taste. Shake up, but do not stir
Have a talent.
Only a few people can be successful in everything. Usually, if you try to become successful in two fields at the same time, then it seems nothing's done. You should better have one obvious talent in the sphere where you are really good at than many empty “skills.” Therefore, try to achieve success in one thing. Maradona cannot do anything except for football, but he is recognized as a genius even after many scandals